It is important that you come to terms with your real feelings about your breakup. You may just be carried away by the initial shock, while deep inside you don't really mourn the end of your relationship. Cool down and determine what really hurts you.
Avoid passing the buck
When you are dealing with a breakup, it is very tempting to shift all the blame to your ex. In some circumstances, you may do the reverse, and heap all the responsibility of the break up on your head. Whichever way the blame is pointed to, it is not healthy.
Passing the buck will stop you from getting to the root cause of the problem so that you may find the best solution. You should not let your emotions cloud your judgment.
Maintain a polite attitude
As you are involved in dealing with a breakup, you should understand that the only help you will get by being rude is in making matters worse.
You will only make your ex get more convinced that you are not the right person to get into a relationship with. You will seem rather childish, and your respect will be shattered to pieces. Even other people who hear you will not take you seriously.
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