Monday, December 21, 2009

3 Tips to Avoid Bad Relationships

When you’re in the dating circle, you become subject to all types of relationships. You see bad relationship and you see some good ones. How do you know what to avoid? Here are some tips to help you recognize the bad ones from the good ones before it’s too late.

Tip 1 - Avoid the “Instant” Relationship

Instant relationships start with men that are dating simply for the fun of dating. He may spend countless hours with you in the beginning. Then the phone calls slow down or stop altogether. You call and call and he doesn’t get back to you. You begin to believe he is seeing other women. Sadly, he may be doing just that.

Don’t assume you are in a relationship with a man because you have dated him more than twice. Men can casually date indefinitely. If he is in the dating circle to simply date, then accept him for that fact. Recognize that he is simply having fun and move on.



Tip 2 - Avoid the “Persuasive” Relationship

Persuasive relationships are the relationships in which you must convince a man to commit to you. Men don’t ponder relationships with women. They enjoy their women and let their internal emotions guide them through the experience. A man can’t be persuaded that you are the woman of his dreams; he must feel it in his heart. It’s a feeling in the pit of their stomach that sends signals to their brain. No matter how many words you use, you won’t be able to trigger that signal with words of persuasion.

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